

Find. Your. Tribe.
We are the ULTIMATE wellness community for Black LGBTQ folks. From our events, to online trainings and amazing trips/travel. We live the soft life. The good life.
joy /joi/ [noun]: A feeling of great pleasure and happiness.
We believe that pursuing wellness is more successsful when it is a collective effort. Do you have the right tribe? The Black Queer Dom Society is a space for health, wellness, play & discovering a life path that feeds your JOY.
Manifest the life you want NOW. Join the Society for a chance to learn & grow together. We are discovering how to release the expectations of this world, finding ways to unleash our dreams.
Experience Pleasure.
Events rooted in Black Queer & Trans Joy.
The BQD VIP Experience
$300.00
This is your ticket to two days of wellness & exploration. We kick off with my High Protocol Immersive, chef curated menu, incredible submissive service, craft cocktails and a live performance you won't forget. Then on Sunday you have all access to workshops on yoga, meditation & breath. Plus a VIP experience of my "spa" where you can experience the Dark Arts first hand (three immersive included). Plus a special welcome gift bag of custom selected treats. Limited Space Available.QuantityComing soonBQD Wellness & Dark Arts Spa Day May 25th!
$25.00 - $75.00
Sunday, May 25th (11am-7pm) Join me for a day dedicated to Queer & Trans Health! We will open with energy work, movement & breath followed by sessions on consent, healing our bodies and wellness practices rooted in pleasure and joy. You will also have the chance to experience the art of energy cupping, Shibari, massage, impact, fire & power exchange as a form of release (or just watch!). Space is limited. Beginners especially are welcome. Morning juice bar and afternoon tea is included with ticket.SelectQuantityComing soonBQD's High Protocol Immersive 5/23
$100.00
Welcome. This Friday evening (May 23rd at 7pm) gives you a peak into the world of High Protocol, the most formal form of the Dark Arts. The all black evening will include aphrodisiac inspired passed hors d'oeuvres accompanied by wine pairings & cocktails. More than a show, this immersive evening will build over our time together with performances in burlesque, shibari, impact, fire and more leading towards a climactic crescendo. Feed your inner voyeur as you watch some of the country’s most talented Black Queer & Trans performers in the Dark Arts bring to life DESIRE.QuantityComing soonWhat Does Membership Include???
For a monthly subscription of $20 you get ALL THIS....
Access our Online Society Community
Online Courses & LIVE Workshops
In Person Experiences That Will CHANGE You.
How It Works
1Register
Memberhsip opens several times a year. Once accepted. You can sign up and join the Society online to start your wellness & joy journey.
2Introduce Yourself!
Tell us your story! We want to know why you're here. It helps us keep our community connected and helps you pursue your dreams to the fullest.
3Connect & Learn.
Then you'll set up a profile and be able to dive right in to online courses, community boards, events and workshops.
A. Tribe. Lifestyle.
One of the BEST perks of being a member of the Society is the opportunity to travel together, communue & learn new skills together. To immerse yourself in wellness and healing activities with the crew.
Our 2025 Experiences & Travel Include:
Submissive Summit (Virtual)
BQD Soceity Pride Weekend (Washington D.C.)
Women's Sweet Heat Weekend (Miami)
Debauchery Weekend (New Orleans)
End of Summer Society Weekend (TBA)
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