Black Queer Dom

Black. Queer. Dominant.
Who Am I? I am Black, queer and masculine of center. I am navigating polyamory with my best friend and wife of 18 years in all its complexity and beauty. I am notoriously private. But I love public conversations. As I explore the intersections of identity I’m eager to have this conversation with other Queer, Trans, GNC Black folks. Hence this space for my musings, thoughts and questions. Curious if there are more of us out there.

Owning our desires and the responsibility that comes with it requires a community of practice. Grateful to be contributing to it. I host an annual circle for Queer, Trans, GNC Black folks interested in deepening your practice in Dominance. Applications are announced on Instagram.
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Submissive Maintenance
Maintenance is one of the most profound forms of care that a Dominant offers. It draws on the spiritual connection of D/s and centers around the wellbeing, care and personal growth of your submissive(s). When done well, maintenance allows you to provide a space of sanctuary for your submissive,...
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Submissive Conditioning
April 1, 2021 · 5
Conditioning is essential in the development and support of new submissives to kink/BDSM. It is the physical manifestation of any Dom's attentiveness and training to the mindset of your submissive. And while each Dom will have their own unique approach to conditioning, there are core fundamentals...
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Poly What????
March 14, 2021 · 1
So, I was late to the poly game. And to be honest. I didn't come willingly at first. I'm an Aquarius sun, so I believe in FREE LOVE. But I'm a Scorpio rising so my possessive, secretive side would rather cheat in secret than do the REALLY HARD work of facing my own fears and insecurities so that...
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Black. Queer. Dominant.

Black. Queer. Dominant.

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Music is often an embodiment of desire. And endless pleasure. Here's a playlist that tells the nuanced, complicated and raw story of my Dominance.

Music is often an embodiment of desire. And endless pleasure. Here's a playlist that tells the nuanced, complicated and raw story of my Dominance.

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